Where is 'the breathing space' in our lives?

The Spiritual Formation Retreats of the past two weekends, one in Olympia, WA and the other in Crestline, CA afforded me an opportunity to reflect and converse with a number of Emerging Journey participants around this simple poem, “Fire.”  It is often very simple images that can cause us to think or re-think where we find ourselves. Amidst all the stuff of life—demands and tasks, relationships and expectations, intentions and decisions, etc—we often need perspective. This poem provided many a window into their pace and their work and their attentiveness in life.  


Simply allow this poem to stir your thoughts as you read it aloud 3 or 4 times …What jumps out? Where does this poem take you?

Fire

What makes a fire burn

is space between the logs,

a breathing space.

Too much of a good thing,

too many logs

packed in too tight

can douse the flames

almost as surely

as a pail of water.

 

So building fires

requires attention

to the spaces in between,

as much as to the wood.

 

When we are able to build

open spaces

in the same way

we have learned

to pile on logs,

then we come to see how

it is fuel, and the absence of fuel

together,  that make fire possible.

 

We only need to lay a log

lightly from time to time.

A fire

grows

simply because the space is there,

with openings

in which the flame

that knows just how it wants to burn

can find its way.

by Judy Brown

Sam M Intrator and Megan Scribner, editors, Teaching with Fire: Poetry that Sustains the Courage to Teach, (San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 2003), 89.

 Possible Questions for Further Exploration:

• When did you learn to start a fire? What do you remember of these early lessons?

• What in the world does this have to do with your life of faith?

• “So building fires requires paying attention to the spaces in between, as much as to the wood”, what are some of the things you are being invited to pay attention to today?

• Where is there” breathing space” in your life? in your family’s life? in your community’s life? in your team?

 





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Posted by Kim Huitink on
Thank you for posting this poem. It truly touched my heart at the retreat in Sioux Falls.
Posted by robloane on
This poem has been so helpful to me as well Kim. I am thankful that it has stuck with you.
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